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Tom (he/him) l 26 l Gay l London

Tom thinks his no-strings bottom should have shaved his backside l We think Tom needs to stop controlling people

Daniella (she/her) l 24 l Lesbian l  Manchester

Daniella is distraught the girl she’s sexting is in a relationship l We think Daniella should be pitching herself much higher

The key is understanding her motivations for a threesome, and if she is trying to destroy things between you.

Danny is being pestered by his boyfriend to have unprotected sex, yet doesn’t trust him not to give him an STI. I question why Danny is even with someone he does not trust.

Agony Aunt James Kearslake, owner of LGBTQ Wellness, giving real column advice to our queer readers, on everything including sex, relationships, mental health and career

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